Our children are leaving the faith in greater proportion as they exit our homes and begin anew in the enormous world set before them. They head off to college with a head knowledge of who Jesus is and what He has done, but nothing more, nothing lasting.
As parents, I think we’ve done a pretty cruddy job at putting action to our faith.
We glorify the text that salvation is a free gift of God and all of grace. We abuse this passage to justify our subsequent inaction to living out the Gospel in our lives, let alone our homes.
Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I tell you? Everyone who comes to me and hears my words and does them, I will show you what he is like: he is like a man building a house, who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock. And when a flood arose, the stream broke against that house and could not shake it, because it had been well built. But the one who hears and does not do them is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. When the stream broke against it, immediately it fell, and the ruin of that house was great. ~Luke 6:46-49
While talking with a friend recently about how to share the Gospel with young children, I was reminded of the warped confusion within the church that it’s about “getting our children converted.”
“Getting your children converted” is not another item on our to-do lists. It’s not a box we check to say, “Okay. He walked the aisle and signed the card. What’s next on my list?”
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always to the end of the age. ~Matthew 28:19-20
Matthew 28:19-20 is the most oft quoted verses in the Bible in regards to evangelism, yet the most oft misunderstood.
Parents, we don’t get off that easy – get our children to say the prayer and that’s all it takes. We cannot and must not find our comfort in these perfunctory words, but instead must commit our lives to discipling, training, and aiding our children in understanding the scriptures and making sure of their faith until the day we die.
Our level of involvement in this process will look different from season to season, but too often, we make our faith something private: It’s just between God and I thank you very much. Or better yet, we leave our children to themselves because we don’t want to “force our religion” on them. We want them to choose for themselves.
Faith is not a personal treasure you keep to yourself. And how can our children ever decide if we don’t teach them the basics of our faith, if we don’t introduce them to our God?
Our faith is to be invested, given away, and shared.
Do you profess to know God within the walls of your home, but deny him by your works? Is living the Gospel in your home seen throughout your days and not just on Sunday?
Living the Gospel at home isn’t making sure you get your family to the church building each time the doors open in the hopes that each member will say a prayer so you can breathe easier at night. Living the Gospel at home will take more courage than that.
You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. ~Deuteronomy 6:5-9
I don’t know about you, but these verses come to me with power that says, you have WORK to do. Our families aren’t going to just live the Gospel because each member managed to say a prayer.
Each of these scriptures mentioned above use powerful descriptors: dug deep, laid a foundation, teach them diligently.
These words invoke an action and bring about images of sweat and hard work.
The Word of God has to infiltrate our home.
The ways of God must be before our family at all times. This means God and His Word must be before YOU at all times.
Living the Gospel at home will take great commitment.
It will take time.
It will take work.
You will need to work out your own salvation, kneeling before God, and living a life pleasing to Him before you can ever expect your family to follow suit.
This series is not an easy series to write. It has convicted me in areas where my family fails to uphold the Gospel, but it has also spurred me on to seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteous. It’s helping me to dig deep, to do the hard work, to not just say I’m a Christian but actually live it out loud – not just to the world, but to the very people who fill my home.
God saved you for a purpose. It’s not enough to say you’re a Christian. The assurance of our faith comes as we seek to live out all that God has commanded.
It starts in our homes. It can no longer be good enough to be a professing Christian but allow our works to deny this all important truth.
Today, grab your Bible and journal. Read through the scriptures mentioned in this post (Luke 6:46-49, Matthew 28:19-20, and Deuteronomy 6:5-9). Let the Lord speak to your heart about the condition of your faith and your home.
This post is part of a 31 Day Series teaching you how to live the Gospel at home. You can see see all the posts in this series here.