‘Tis the Season to Sing Really Loud Even if You Can’t Carry a Tune

Welcome back to ‘Tis the Season – a 4-week series focusing on the true meaning of Christmas. I have joined forces with Erin at The Humbled Homemaker and Mindy at The Purposed Heart for a few weeks to help you focus on Christ this holiday season.

What a rich season of celebration and serving this Christmas has been. It is so easy to look at our circumstances and think God has forgotten us, even when we are experiencing depression. But God has not forgotten us, and He is so glad to be called our God.

I am so thankful for truth this holiday season! Doesn’t it make you want to shout to the roof tops? Doesn’t it make you want to sing really loud even though you can’t carry a tune in a bucket?

Well, friends, ’tis the season to sing and rejoice in Jesus Christ our Savior!

My 2 favorite CHRISTmas albums that you should sing really loud every where you go:

1. Glory in the Highest by Chris Tomlin

Chris Tomlin just rocks. He is so incredibly talented. This is my favorite album this year. My favorite is Joy to the World (Unspeakable Joy). It makes me want to raise my hands and dance every.single.time.

2. Do You See What I See? by Todd Agnew

 

 Todd Agnew created a beautiful story with this album. I love imagining what something must have been like for someone. I love descriptions. I love putting myself in other people’s shoes. I love relating. This album puts me in the mind of Mary, Joseph, Elizabeth, etc., and it forces me to step outside my 21st century self and truly worship my King who came in complete humility. I love This is All I have to Give (Joseph’s perspective).

What about you? What Christmas albums are your favorite?

Be sure to check out the other ladies participating in this series to see what they are singing this Christmas season:

Tis the Season to Sing – When All You Hear is Silence @ The Humbled Homemaker
Tis the Season to Sing and Let Your Heart Be Touched @ The Purposed Heart

 

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‘Tis the Season to Celebrate When You Don’t Feel Like Celebrating

Welcome back to ‘Tis the Season – a 4-week series focusing on the true meaning of Christmas. I’m joining up with Erin at The Humbled Homemaker and Mindy at The Purposed Heart for the next few weeks to help you focus on Christ this holiday season.

Last week, we discussed ‘Tis the Season to Serve Like Saint Nick. Did you think of creative ways you can bless others over the next couple of weeks? If not, you still have time.

I have my gifts for the mail “lady” and librarians ready to go. I just keep forgetting to actually deliver them…

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This week, I want to talk to you about ’tis the season to celebrate when you don’t feel like celebrating.

Warning: This post takes a lot of guts to write. Bear with me.

On December 1st, creating traditions that will leave lasting memories for my family became my mission. We’ve been enjoying Advent activities, as well as a nightly “Jesse Tree” devotional. I’ve been wrapping presents, and even making homemade presents for friends and family. I’ve enjoyed lots of Nutella hot chocolate, and watched Christmas movies with my sister and husband.

At the surface, it seems that I have been fully celebrating this holiday season and reveling in the gift of Jesus Christ. However, at the core? At the very center of my being? I’m struggling.

Rewind to three years ago. I sat on the couch with my husband who was expressing to me that people really can become depressed. He pointed out that they can be in the word, on their knees crying out to God, but still struggle with depression. I looked him square in the eyes and said, “I don’t believe it. Those people are weak and not trusting the Lord.” Ouch. How arrogant … and wrong I was.

The year of 2011 has been a year of God’s continual revealing of the sin of pride in my life, and He loves me so much that this year He has been at work stripping me of all that holds me captive. I’m far from humble. However, I believe God in His kindness is refining me. I know He is at work helping me to put off pride and self-righteousness and instead put on humility, compassion, and love (Colossians 3:12-17).

On Friday of last week, through tears, I admitted to my husband that I am depressed.

He was not surprised.

I was thankful.

I think there are many factors that play into this conclusion – overwork, financial strains, nutritional deficiencies, relational difficulties, and more. I am aware that most issues are circumstantial.

Is there some spiritual sin? Yes.
Am I fully aware of all that the Lord wants me to see? No.
Am I aware that God loves me and cares for me? Absolutely.

In light of this reality, I want to share with you three things I am doing to celebrate this holiday season even when I don’t feel like celebrating.

1. Talk about it.

By God’s grace, I realized relatively quickly that things were not right for me. Also, by God’s grace, I knew that if I bottled it up, I would surely burst from grief (Psalm 32:3-4).

Telling Mark, the man of my prayers, was hard, but by talking about my heart condition with him, I extend to him the opportunity to serve and lead me. I entrust to him my very heart. I am vulnerable.

Additionally, I am bringing light to the dark. I am unveiling what is veiled. The devil cannot live in  the light.

Get behind me Satan.

2. Pray.

A lot of the time, it feels so pointless to pray, but “behind a frowning providence, He hides a smiling face” (God Moves in a Mysterious Way by William Cowper). I know that to be true. God longs for me to cast all my cares upon Him (Psalm 55:22; Matthew 11:28-30; 1 Peter 5:7). He wants me to cry out to Him. I know that as I wait for Him, I am made more faithful (Romans 5).

Last night, for our “Jesse Tree” devotional, we read about Joshua and the battle of Jericho from The Jesus Storybook Bible. Friends, I am a “pull yourself up from the bootstraps” kind of girl. When there is a problem, I meet it head on, grit my teeth, and barrel forward determined to win.

However, this time? God’s not going to let me do that. Instead, like Joshua and his army who had their swords and spears and shields ready to fight, I must realize that this is not my battle to fight the traditional way. This is a battle that will only be fought and won by God through trust and patience as I wait upon Him. I must march through each day – each day that makes zero sense – and trust that God has a marvelous plan that will result in victory.

Right now, that’s all I know – and for now, it is enough. So I pray. I pray for you. I pray for Mark. I pray for Sam. I pray for my dear friends. I’m going to pray for others.

Mark said, “Take this very difficult season and make it about others. Serve others. Fight by looking outside yourself.”

Amen.

3. Celebrate anyways.

Last night, I didn’t want to do our “Jesse Tree” devotional; however, instead of my husband reading it, I read it. God met me. I experienced joy for the first time all day.

Passionate Homemaking posted about how to Naturally Battle Depression, and in her post, she shared a poem that I have found to be so helpful.

“Many a questioning, many a fear,
Many a doubt, hath its quieting here.

Moment my moment, let down from Heaven,
Time, opportunity, guidance, are given.
Fear not tomorrows, Child of the King,
Trust them with Jesus, ‘DO THE NEXT THING.’
Do it immediately; do it with prayer;
Do it reliantly, casting all care;
Do it with reverence, tracing His Hand
Who placed it before thee with earnest command.
Stayed on Omnipotence, safe ’neath His wing,
Leave all resultings, ‘DO THE NEXT THING.’”
–author unknown

Over the weekend, Emily at Chatting at the Sky wrote:

“When you don’t have an answer, let it be enough to walk humbly with your question.”

My friends, I will celebrate this holiday season when I don’t feel like celebrating for the Lord has put more joy in my heart than I can ever hope or dream (Psalm 4:7).

For now, my soul is cast down within me, but I know and I trust and I believe that I will again praise Him (Psalm 42). ‘Tis the season to celebrate the coming of my Savior, my deliverer, my comforter. The birth of our Savior truly is an event worth rejoicing over!

The schemes of the devil are not new. Satan has been using the same tactics for centuries – my God is not a liar and He will never forsake me (Deuteronomy 31:6, Hebrews 13:5). I will cling tight to the gospel this holiday season, and again, I will say, “Get behind me Satan.”

 

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Don’t forget to check out:

‘Tis the Season to Celebrate – In Heaven @ The Humbled Homemaker
‘Tis the Season to Celebrate @ The Purposed Heart

What about you? Have you ever struggled with depression? What words from scripture encouraged you?

This post is linked to Chatting at the Sky (one of my new favorite blogs)!

Jesse Tree – A Christmas Tradition

In addition to our Advent calendar, we have decided to embark on the journey of connecting the Old Testament with the New Testament through the use of the “Jesse Tree” this Christmas season.

The idea of the “Jesse Tree” stems from Isaiah 11:1-2:

There shall come forth a shoot from the stump of Jesse, and a branch from his roots shall bear fruit. And the Spirit of the Lord shall rest upon him, the Spirit of wisdom and understanding, the Spirit of counsel and might, the Spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord.

There are several different ways you can do the “Jesse Tree.” Some start four weeks prior to Christmas while others start on December 1st. I don’t think there is any one right way to do it, but I would urge you to pray and seek the Lord on how best to use the “Jesse Tree” to inform the hearts of your family for the coming of Jesus Christ.

We decided to begin our “Jesse Tree” devotionals on December 1st. It will begin on this day every year. The reason? Well, I can’t count backwards four weeks from Christmas day. That is much too advanced for me. I needed to make it easy to remember. December 1st. We begin Advent and “Jesse Tree” activities and devotionals. Easy enough, right?

Each day, we read from scripture, starting at Creation and ending at the birth of Jesus, and we hang an ornament to represent that day’s reading. Every story points to Christ as the Messiah – the fulfillment of the Old Testament prophesies. It is true that every scripture breathes the name of Jesus. It has been so rewarding to have these scriptures come to life for us through the use of our “Jesse Tree.” The visual element of the ornaments helps the stories stick with us long after our reading.

We recycled our “Thankful Tree” to use as our “Jesse Tree.” I simply love it. We are also making our own ornaments as we go. Some days we don’t get around to actually making that day’s ornament, but that’s okay. We will try again next year. We’re in no hurry. We’re enjoying the process.

Below you can find pictures of our ornaments. I will be updating this page as we complete each day. Remember, we’re not going for perfection, so we might miss a day, but at least you can have some ideas for your own “Jesse Tree.”

December 1 – Jesse Tree – Pine Needles

December 2 – Creation – Earth

December 3 – Adam & Eve – Apple

December 4 – Noah’s Ark – Rainbow

December 5 – Promise to Abraham – Starry Sky

December 6 – Issac – Bundle of wood

December 7 – Jacob – Ladder

December 8 – Joseph – Multi-colored yarn

December 9 – Moses – Table of 10 Commandments

December 10 – Ruth – Wheat

December 11 – Joshua – Scarlet cord

December 12 – Samuel – Horn

December 13 – David & Goliath – Slingshot

December 14 – David – Crown

December 15 – Jonah – Whale

December 16 – Isaiah – Baby

December 17 – Micah – City/Bethlehem

December 18 – Esther – Gold sceptre

December 19 – Zechariah & Elizabeth – Pencil & Tablet

December 20 – John the Baptist – Shell w/ water

December 21 – Joseph – Hammer

December 22 – Mary – White Lily

December 23 – Journey – Star

December 24 – Jesus – Sandals

December 25 – Christ – Candle


What about you? Does your family use a “Jesse Tree” for teaching your children the connection between the Old and New Testament?

Other Resources for using a “Jesse Tree”:

Advent Calendar for Broke People Who Line Dry Their Clothes

You’ll have to bear with me. I’m tired, and I just had a mug of Nutella hot chocolate. This means I am overly tired and hyped up on chocolate. Great. Now that we have that out of the way. Let’s proceed.

As we neared December 1st, frustration began to set in. We wanted to do an Advent Calendar full of fun things to do as a family each day, but we didn’t have a pretty little painted box with doors that opened to reveal the day’s treat. I don’t have time to frequent thrift stores (I’m having withdrawals) to find recycled treasures, and I was not paying full price for one from the store.

What’s a broke person to do?

If you know me, you know that I’m terrible at thinking outside the box. However, for the love of my family, I decided to give it a go. Look at what I discovered?

It’s an advent calendar … for broke people … who line dry their clothes diapers. Genius. Well, if you ask me, of course. It was my idea. I can say that, right? No? Well, ok then. Can I tell you what I did anyways? Thanks.

I cut out 25 Christmas trees from green (in case you couldn’t tell) card stock that I had on hand. I used black stickers to number each tree.

Then, I grabbed my clothes pins from the laundry room. Once my hot glue gun was dripping glue everywhere, I knew it was ready to go. I glued the trees to the clothes pins.

Voila! You have 25 “little boxes” for holding your treats!

Then, I made a list of 25 fun Advent activities to do together as a family. Ok, actually I cheated. I already had this done weeks ago. But you get the point.

25 Advent Activities

  1. Open a special ornament and put on tree.
  2. Town Christmas Parade.
  3. Listen to Todd Agnew Christmas CD.
  4. Take treats to friends.
  5. Make hot chocolate and stir with candy canes
  6. Make Christmas card for librarians.
  7. Take a meal to a friend.
  8. Make Christmas card for mailman.
  9. Christmas lights at a local park.
  10. Watch “It’s A Wonderful Life,” and eat popcorn.
  11. Make a gift for someone in the military.
  12. Mail Christmas cards.
  13. Eat dinner in front of the Christmas tree (complete with fire).
  14. Make homemade ornaments.
  15. Pass out gifts to Daddy’s work.
  16. Ice skating at Market Square.
  17. Watch “A Christmas Carol,” and eat popcorn.
  18. Walk through Bethlehem.
  19. Work a new puzzle.
  20. Drink Russian Tea by the fire.
  21. Give Maddox a Christmas treat.
  22. Read Mary, Did You Know?.
  23. Read The Crippled Lamb.
  24. Go to Christmas Eve service at church & wear new jammies to bed.
  25. Sing Happy Birthday to Jesus!

I put each of these on a slip of paper. Folded them up and tucked them into a clothes pin.

Finally, I ran a ribbon across my wall and nailed it in place. And with that, we have a broke person who line dries her clothes advent calendar.

What do you think?

Other Advent Resources You Should Check Out:
Family Tradition – Advent @ Stacy Makes Cents
Creating Meaningful Christmas Traditions @ Homemakers Challenge via The Encouraging Home

 

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‘Tis the Season to Serve Like Saint Nick

I’m so excited to announce a 4-week series for each Monday until Christmas: ‘Tis the Season! I’ll be joining Erin @ The Humbled Homemaker and Mindy @ The Purposed Heart in discussing the true meaning of Christmas. I hope you’ll join us!

Father Christmas.
Samichlaus.
Sinterklaas.

These are all names for the man we know today in North America as Santa Claus. Before he was dubbed Santa Claus, however, he had another name.

A jolly, portly man who fulfills every child’s wish replaced the humble servant thrown in jail for his faith. A man who prances into every toy store smiling while people pay to sit on his lap replaced the man who begged for people to not tell anyone that he gave gold to the poor children.

This man was Saint Nicholas.

Saint Nicholas became the symbol of Christmas to encourage others to look outside themselves for a season and do good for the world – a breath of fresh air during some of the hardest times in history. Saint Nicholas did his gift giving secretly, under cover of night. He didn’t want to be seen while doing good, as he wanted those he helped to give thanks to God.

Saint Nicholas was a man of valor and honor. He was a man who loved the Lord and sold his life to the service of his Heavenly Father through his care for the poor and needy. Saint Nicholas was generous and faithful. He was a servant lavishly blessing those in need so that they might see and savor Jesus Christ!

As we enter this Christmas season, the call to represent Christ well folds out before us. If you are a Christian, you are being observed. You are being watched.

This fact humbles me.

I am reminded of Charles Spurgeon’s words in answer for why we are here as Christians (I have quoted this once before during our marriage series. You may remember.):

The answer is – they are here that they may “live unto the Lord,” and may bring others to know His love. We remain on earth as sowers to scatter good seed; as ploughmen to break up the fallow ground; as herald’s publishing salvation. We are here as the “salt of the earth,” to be a blessing to the world. We are here to glorify Christ in our daily life … Let us live earnest, useful, holy lives, to “the praise of the glory of His grace.

As I think about this sweet season, known for its generosity and care for the poor, I want to remember Saint Nicholas. Furthermore, I want to look past Saint Nicholas at the one for whom he loved to point – Jesus Christ.

Regardless of your stance on Santa Claus, to celebrate Christmas with him or without him, let us not miss point. Our tendency this time of year bows toward selfishness. Let it not be said of us! May we guard against the looming selfish tendencies,  and point to the selfless work of Christ who came as a babe, died on the cross, and then, rose from the grave victorious for our sins!

Like Saint Nicholas, I want to illuminate Jesus Christ this holiday season, and I want you to as well. Therefore, I’ve put together a practical list of serving options for you to consider.

5 Serving Ideas to do as a family this holiday season:

1. Provide a meal to a friend.

Do you have a friend who is walking through a difficult season?

  • Maybe she is in her first trimester of pregnancy (or the last weeks).
  • Maybe this is the first holiday season he will celebrate without his beloved spouse who passed away this year.
  • Maybe it is a single guy friend who doesn’t have family nearby.
  • Maybe it is a single mom trying to make ends meet.

Ask yourself, “Who can I bless with a nice home cooked meal?”

Have them over for a meal, or take a meal to them. I know anytime a meal is provided to me I am so, so grateful.

I have a list of freezer meals that aren’t gross that you might want to consider making.

2. Surprise a person most forgotten.

Think about your daily life. Who is it that you see or use the services of daily that you take for granted?

Some ideas to get your brain moving:

  • Mailman
  • Librarian
  • Janitor
  • Trash pick-up
  • Young man who bags your groceries

Make a treat or purchase a gift card for them to just say thanks. Package it nicely and leave it where they will find it.

We plan on making treats for our librarian and mailman this Christmas season, but while writing this, I have a specific young man from the grocery store that I would like to bless. Do you feel the Lord’s prompting? Respond. You won’t regret it.

Just so you know, this serving option makes me the most uncomfortable. So if you’re shaking in your shoes. I’m with you. But God has called us to serve, and this is one of the many ways that we can put to death fear of man and worship of self to bring honor to our Lord, Jesus Christ.

I will be using Healthy Holidays: Slightly Indulgent Sweet Treats (free e-book) for my baking needs.

3. Volunteer at your local homeless shelter

Serving meals at your local soup kitchen seems like the most obvious choice, but yet, it’s often the most overlooked. Maybe because it has become so common, we’ve grown accustomed to it and fail to notice the significance. However, taking a couple of hours out of your Saturday to serve those who are desperate for you will no doubt cause your heart to swell with compassion. It will show your children the realities of this world, and in some cases, the consequences of poor choices.

Can’t serve a meal? Then, donate coats to the mission. Give money if you can.

The truth is that these people need our care regardless of the circumstances that landed them in this grave state. Share the love of Jesus with them. They are desperate for Him – just like you.

4. Give a gift to a child.

Every mall has a tree somewhere inside of it filled with little teddy bears with names of children you may never meet. Nevertheless, these children need you.

They could be children of parents who can’t afford to bless them this Christmas; or their parents are in prison; or they are simply at risk. They need love. This is a season when we can show this love in abundance.

So choose a child off the tree and shop together for this sweet little life, one made in the image of God, as a family. Bless them the way you would bless your own child.

5. Set aside an entire day to love your kids.

Turn off the computer. Leave the phone on the counter. Hit the off button on the TV. Snuggle up close and enjoy the little years. Talk about the boy troubles. Kiss the Boo-boos. Make a holiday treat.

It is so easy to forget those closest to home during this season of serving. It can go by so fast. We can have wonderful intentions when it comes to serving others, but to the neglect of our own home. Let this not be said of us. Love on your husband and kids without distraction. They need you.

What about you? What are some ways your family plans on serving others this holiday season?

Be sure to check out:

Erin @ The Humbled Homemaker – Tis the Season to Serve–With Little Ones
Mindy @ The Purposed Heart – 7 Practical Ways to Serve Others This Christmas

 

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Christmas Bells Are Ringing in Our Home

Our decorations are up. Wanna see?

Now all we need is a fire, right?

Next week, I’m going to tell you more about our Jesse Tree and Advent tradition that we’ve started. Stay tuned!

Have a great weekend!

 

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An Intentional Approach to Thanksgiving: A Day of Feasting

Huge thanksgiving dumpster haul, come git some veggies!

Today, we are enjoying the gift of fellowship and food. Just as the Pilgrims celebrated God’s abundant goodness and feasted on his riches during their first harvest, we are doing the same.

I pray your family enjoys a day of Thanksgiving.

Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving… The one who offers thanksgiving as his sacrifice glorifies me. ~Psalm 50

 

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An Intentional Approach to Thanksgiving: A Day of Fasting

Now that we have enjoyed our Mayflower and Plymouth Dinner, as well as continued adding to our Thankful Tree, we are ready for our third installment of our intentional approach to Thanksgiving.

The very first Thanksgiving dinner was not a one day celebration as we celebrate it now. It was over the course a few days, which is why we, as a family, started celebrating on Tuesday with our reminiscent dinners. As my family begins to prepare our hearts for the big feast that we will enjoy with family tomorrow, we want to take a day to fast and pray.

Fasting, an often overlooked spiritual discipline, goes radically against the flesh, and warrants an opportunity for us to avert our eyes to our Savior. Fasting is not meant to draw attention to ourselves, unless of course it’s an unveiling of our destitution, then self-evaluation is appropriate, but fasting prompts us to turn our eyes toward our amazing God in praise and worship as we deprive ourselves of a specific, normal function.

Many choose to deprive themselves of food as they seek the Lord through prayer and fasting. Since food is the primary means by which fasting is taught in the bible, I think it is wise for one to follow this model.

However, there are circumstances when giving up food is not wise. Right now, my body is fighting to recover from a nursing strike brought on by a confused 10 month old. Therefore, to deny myself the needed nutrients to rebuild and maintain my supply of milk would be unwise. Therefore, my day of fasting will consist of a deprivation from Facebook, Twitter, and blogging. This proves to be particularly challenging due to the fact that my husband purchased an I-phone 4s for me as a Happy Birthday gift. No using it for the very thing I wanted it for? Not to mention, I will be in the car for seven hours? Yeesh! And to be clear, this post was scheduled yesterday. So, no I didn’t get on to post this today either. ;)

Anyways, fasting must be done with a clearly defined spiritual purpose. Therefore, our purpose for fasting is three fold.

1. To Express Love and Worship to God

He is worthy of all of our praise. Fasting is a means by which we can express our devotion to our mighty God. A word of caution: By fasting, we do not earn a better standing before God. We are not more righteous for depriving ourselves of the gift of food. We are merely expressing that our greatest pleasure and enjoyment in life is only found in God.

2. To Seek God’s Guidance

We are desperate for God. We are desperate for clarity as we seek His will for our lives. By fasting, we are opening ourselves more fully to God to see His will emerge. Of course, more clarity and clearness of sight is not guaranteed, but we do put ourselves in the path of grace.

3. To Add Weight to Our Prayers

Fasting strengthens our petitions before God. Fasting has been used for centuries by the people of God to add weight and passion to their prayers. As we pray for our time of fellowship with our family, fasting orients our hearts toward God, and creates an urgency to our prayers.

So, my friends, we are using this second day of our intentional approach to Thanksgiving to submit our prayers to our Heavenly Father through a passionate acceptance of His gift of fasting.

 

Tell me. Have you ever fasted for a specific purpose? What was the result?

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An Intentional Approach to Thanksgiving: Pilgrims for a Day

Thinking through how we wanted to celebrate Thanksgiving meant that we had to think about why we celebrate Thanksgiving. Creating a Thankful Tree is only step one to an intentional approach to Thanksgiving.

As is my nature, I scoured the shelves of our local library (virtually, mind you), and found this book: Pilgrim Stories by Margaret Pumphrey. I absolutely adored this book. I felt like I was in middle school all over again. I was stealing every moment I could get to myself so I could read the next chapter.

As I have read through the history of the Pilgrims, I was amazed at how little I remembered from school. I was fascinated to read about Scrooby Manor, Pastor John Robinson, the escape to Holland, the Mayflower, hardtack, the loss of half the passengers the first winter, Squanto, and so much more. MayflowerHistory.com intrigued me for hours. It’s the mother load of information.

I was even more fascinated to imagine what life must have been like on the Mayflower, for the women especially. This week our first nursing strike took place, and our world got turned upside down. I couldn’t help but imagine what it would have been like if this had happened during my voyage to America in 1621 on a ship devoid of sufficient food for a growing baby. My boy probably would not have survived – many didn’t. I would have buried him up on the hill with the majority of my friends in a world that I knew nothing about.

Mayflower II
Could you imagine the hurt, the pain, and the many nights of crying yourself to sleep; yet, all the while believing in a God who works all things for our good?

I cried when I read of the first “Thanksgiving Dinner.” The fellowship and the relief they must have felt. They had known extreme hardship, but now they were overflowing with food and provision from the hand of God. They even had enough to share with their Wompanoag friends.

And although it be not always so plentiful as it was at this time with us, yet by the goodness of God, we are so far from want that we often wish you partakers of our plenty. ~ Edward Winslow, December 12, 1621

It was a sweet respite before more bad news and hardship, but it was a glimpse of what was to come for them. Oh, the joy they must have felt.  The feeling that it was all worth it – the seasickness, the tears, the hunger, the fatigue. The Lord had provided a way for them to worship Him in freedom in this new land.

Of course, they weren’t entirely free, but as we look back, we see that what they did made a way for us. Because now, I can walk into my church building and worship our Heavenly Father without fear. Not to mention, I have more than enough food to feed my family – sometimes I think I have too many choices.

In light of all of this, I want to help my family to remember what the Pilgrims went through in order for us to celebrate this national holiday – Thanksgiving. It’s not just another day to gather with family. It’s a time to praise God for providing a way for us to worship Him.

To do this, my family will be Pilgrims for a day.  Tonight, we will be having a Mayflower Dinner followed by a Plymouth Dinner. In the future, we’ll try to incorporate in some costumes and props. {I got the idea from Doorposts. You can read about it here.}

We’ll be crowding into a corner of our garage (where our stinky dog sleeps), and eating our Mayflower Dinner. I have prepared the meal for us to eat together. We will talk about what the Pilgrims went through. We’ll read stories, and we’ll try to imagine and experience what life must have been like on the Mayflower.

Mayflower Dinner

Salted Beef

Beer

Hardtack

There are several recipes for this, but here is what I found. I made ours on Saturday so it didn’t get as much time to age as I would have preferred. However, this is our first year, right?

  • 3 cups wheat flour
  • 1 cup white flour
  • 1 tsp. salt
  • 1/2 – 3/4 cup water (amount varies)

Mix dry ingredients. Add water to get a stiff batter.  Roll dough out thin, about 1/4 inch thick, and roll it up into a tube, like you would for cinnamon rolls or jelly rolls.  Beat it down for several minutes, then fold it and repeat for several more times.  Then roll it out very thick (around 1 inch thick) and cut into square biscuits using a knife.  Place on an un-greased cookie sheet.  Poke the biscuits on the top, very deeply (but not all the way through), several times with a knife.  Bake for about 50 minutes at 350 degrees. Turn off oven, and let the biscuits cool in the oven. Let age for more traditional hardtack.

Then, we’ll move inside to our warm home and enjoy a nice Plymouth Dinner. We’ll be eating traditional foods from that first Thanksgiving. We’ll read from the book of Psalms and worship God for what He has done.

Plymouth Dinner

Boiled Cod

Take a little water, and as much beer, and salt, and add herbs (parsley, thyme, and rosemary). Let all these boil together: then put in your cod (or salmon), and make your broth sharp with some vinegar. {I wish they had written clearer directions in “those” days. This really doesn’t make a lot of sense to me, but I’ll give a try.}

Stewed Pumpkin

I read that they would slice the pumpkins and dice the flesh. Add water to a pot and stew the pumpkins on low heat all day. They will cook down to look like baked apples. Then, serve the pumpkin with butter, vinegar, and spices like ginger, etc.

As a side note, I also read that stewed pumpkin “provokes urine extremely and is very windy.” If I’m reading that right, I think they are saying it makes you go tee-tee a lot and gives you gas? Is that how you read that? This gave me a giggle.

Strawberry Cornmeal

This was a Wamponoag treat. I might try to make some sort of strawberry bread from my strawberry stash. {not this year unfortunately, but I will try this next year}

We are so excited to start this little tradition with our family. I imagine it will be more meaningful as Samuel grows and more children (Lord willing) are added to the mix.


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An Intentional Approach to Thanksgiving – Create a Thankful Tree

Every year, all around the country, turkeys come out of the oven stuffed to the brim and millions of pies are baked and served piping hot. I can almost taste my grandmother’s homemade pecan pie as I type.
Pecan Pie

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. It always has been. I have great memories of getting together with family, eating good food, and having no other purpose but to fellowship with one another. No presents to open. No appointments to keep. No where to go, but around the corner to Mamaw’s house.

Thanksgiving produces warm memories from my childhood.

This got me to thinking.

How can I create memories for my husband and children that will be remembered and looked forward to for years to come?

My answer was to create traditions of our own, of course!

Over the next couple of weeks, I am going to share with you what my family is doing to create lasting memories and foster thanksgiving in our hearts as we draw nearer to our Thanksgiving feast. It’s an intentional approach to Thanksgiving.

First up – Create a Thankful Tree.

We had so much fun creating our little tree. We got a little side tracked having a rodeo in our front yard, but once we got back on track, we had a mighty fine tree for hanging our leaves of thankfulness.

Want to make your own?

To create your own Thankful Tree you need:

  • Gallon mason jar
  • Paper bags from past grocery trips
  • Twine
  • Sticks from your yard
  • Scrapbook paper
  • Scissors
  • Leaf stencil
  • Hole punch

What you do:

  1. Shred your paper bag and arrange in your jar.
  2. Send your hubby outside to gather a few sticks/branches with your 10 month old.
  3. Choose your best sticks from their stash.
  4. Put the sticks in your jar of paper bag shreds.
  5. Tie some twine around the neck of the jar.
  6. Cut out leaves from your scrapbook paper.
  7. Start writing what you are thankful for.
  8. Punch holes in the leaf and loop some twine through so you can hang your leaf.

Each night at dinner, we talk about what we are thankful for. Yes, even Samuel gets a say.

This has been so much fun to see what everyone is thankful for. Not to mention, the Thankful Tree sits where I can see it from most anywhere I am in my home. I walk by it multiple times a day, and each time, I cannot help but smile.

Our tradition.
Our memory.
Our family.


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