Settling in Slowly But Surely

It has been eleven days since we moved into our new home. I sometimes wonder if it hasn’t been the longest eleven days of my life, but then I remember being in first stage labor for a week and think maybe not. Nevertheless, as I told you last week, this move has been one of the more difficult trials I have ever encountered. The days are long and the nights of rest are far too short. However, we are right where the Lord wants us, and for that we are grateful. His grace has proven sufficient time and time again.

The first week here was spent cleaning. I must say a special thank you to my mother and Sarah who were star players in this arena. I simply could not have made this move without them. The people before us had three dogs plus our Maddox living in the house. Samuel and I are both allergic to dog hair and pet dander. Therefore, major deep cleaning had to take place before the house was liveable for us. Talk about a lot of work! These two were tireless in their efforts to help me eliminate every ounce of dog hair from this house and even the garage! I was repeatedly humbled by their servant hearts and lack of complaining as they worked. I have much to learn from these two.

To note, natural cleaning products have shown their true colors these past eleven days (read: they worked like a charm), and for that I am grateful. To not have to resort to chemical laden products was a blessing. Melaleuca cleaning products are absolutely amazing and completely safe for my family and friends who helped us clean. If you haven’t used these products, then you are missing out.

Along with cleaning the inside of the house, we had much work to be done on the 4-5 acres of land surrounding the house. The flower beds were heavily overgrown, and the bushes and trees were in great need of a hair cut. My in-loves came out to help for several days and brought along all of their yard tools for us to use. We live on the water so to leave these beds untended so close to the house was just inviting every snake within a five mile radius. With a baby who wants to get down and go, this just was not ok for this mama. Not to mention, there was too much potential to put God’s amazing creation on display! This land is a testament to His creativity, and we want to steward it well.

My in-loves, and a couple of our dear friends, also graciously helped us paint much of the inside of the house. With their help, we were able to completely finish the living room, dining room, hallway, and half of the kitchen. What a blessing! We are working to complete the painting in all the areas that does not have carpet at the moment. We still need to paint Samuel’s room and the bonus room before this coming Saturday, which is when our carpet will hopefully be laid. The guest room and remainder of the kitchen can wait since these areas already have the proper flooring.

Finally, in the middle of all this work, Samuel came down with some sort of bug. We thought it was teething, but seeing as he still doesn’t have a tooth, we’re not so sure anymore. We have no idea what he had, but for three or four days, we fought to keep his temperature below 102. Between painting rooms, pulling weeds, cleaning floors, etc., we were giving Samuel lukewarm baths, rubbing Melaleuca oil on his feet, and trying to nurse frequently to keep him hydrated. He was miserable, and so were we. He was waking every couple of hours at night, which now that we have to walk everywhere with shoes on because of the plywood, this was quite challenging in our sleepy stupors. However, God healed Him before the weekend was up, and he is back to playing and laughing again.

I look forward to this time next week. Lord willing, and if all goes as planned, I will be walking around bare foot again on nice plush carpet. We should have the remainder of the house painted, and the deep cleaning should be complete. We might even have several more boxes unloaded since our furniture will be in its rightful place. My son will be able to go anywhere he pleases, and we might even be caught back up on sleep.

In the meantime, thank you for your continued patience with the decrease in posting on Intentional By Grace. I have been surprised to see that no one has canceled their subscription, but just the opposite has happened – my numbers have gone up. I am so grateful for your forbearance and support during this time of transition. Thank you for releasing me to my family, and I look forward to connecting more faithfully in the very near future. Your continued prayers are much appreciated!

Flirty Aprons Are A Must In My Kitchen

When Mark and I got married, one of the things I asked for was a “pretty” apron. Call me old fashioned, but I love aprons. I have many memories of dropping in to visit my grandmother, and she would greet me at the door with her hair pinned up, wearing a pretty apron, and drying her hands on a dish towel. I couldn’t help but smile and think, I want to be like that when I grow up. I suppose she made homemaking attractive.

I think the apron was not only functional, but created a sense of warmth when she greeted me at the door. Well, that and she always loved kissing you while warning you that she wasn’t expecting company she could kiss, and she ate an onion right before you walked up. ;)

Nevertheless, I have been on the hunt for pretty aprons ever since. However, if you know me, I’m pretty slow at making decisions (unless it’s carpet we’re talking about, and I can make a decision in point five seconds – ask my mother-in-love). Anyways, it took me three years to break down and actually buy myself an apron.

I am glad that I waited because I finally found some adorable aprons for a reasonable price. Insert FlirtyAprons.com! They are always running a sale of some sort, and I snagged this one for less than 20 bucks about a month ago! Isn’t it adorable? The baby too, of course!

I love how happy and cheerful my apron is. Mark always smiles when he sees me in my apron. I have to admit it makes me smile quite a bit too. I may not always get my hair brushed (like on the day this picture was taken), and I may be THAT woman who is bare foot with a baby on her hip wearing spit up on her sleeve. However, just throw a cheerful apron over top of it all, and I feel so feminine and look cute while I work. It’s an instant boost to a day that could be heading south quickly.

For me, the apron represents love, gentleness, and joy. These are fruits of the spirit that I want to exude. These are the fruits of the spirit that make it impossible for those who grace my home, as well as me, of course, to not think about God. To be sure, the apron is not “the fix,” but it is a tool for helping me make my goal a reality. I feel so homey and welcoming when I’m wearing my apron.

And because I love it so much, I wanted to share with you a sale that Flirty Aprons has right now on their Sugar and Spice Apron.

Today only (8/8) they are having a 50% off Flash Sale on the Sugar & Spice apron. You can use the code SUGAR50. How cute is this one? I love how feminine it looks. I think the fun ruffles on the bottom would make me want to salsa in the kitchen. No, I have no idea how to salsa, but it sounds fun doesn’t it?

If you’ve been on the hunt for a fun apron at a reasonable price, then check out Flirty Aprons. They have so many fun designs. I think they make perfect gifts! I’m thinking about getting a few to have on hand. I can think of a few women who would love these aprons.

And just an fyi of sorts … I do keep a Flirty Aprons banner in my sidebar. You can click through whenever you like to check out other apron patterns. Don’t think this is just for women. They have some pretty stud aprons for the men in your life as well. Every grill man needs his own apron if you ask me. ;)

What do you think? Are you an apron wearer? What other things do you use/do throughout your day to make you feel feminine and pretty even when your covered in spit up like me?

 

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Staying Sane as We Pack Up Our Lives

As we seek to pack everything we own into boxes (again), one of the things that gets pushed aside frequently is actual cleaning.

With six month old on the move and eating three meals a day plus nursing full-time, a husband who looks like he moves out every single morning with his briefcase, lunch bag, and work out bag, and not to mention, life still goes on even when you’re in the middle of packing to move, cleaning easily gets forgotten. Sometimes it even seems needless. I certainly haven’t maintained my hot spot.

As a result, things can get pretty dirty very quickly. Clutter starts piling up from mail and bills that continue to come in. Jobs still have to be done. Breakfasts, lunches, and dinners still have to be consumed. We still need clean clothes to wear. The list goes on, right?

So what am I doing to stay sane during this moving process? Other than much, much prayer, which is the most important part, I am seeking to simplify my cleaning schedule to be sure that our basic necessities are met and home is still a haven amid all of life’s changes.

First and foremost, keep the kitchen clean!

When we look around and see boxes stacking up everywhere, keeping this area clean instantly reduces stress for both of us because this is where we spend most of our time. Therefore, I will keep the dishes washed, drying dishes put back where they belong, dishwasher unloaded, and floors swept.

Second, don’t let the mail and bills get lost.

Keep filing even though it’s inconvenient right now. Dealing with mail as it comes in and not letting it pile up assures us that we don’t pack more than is needed, and we can be certain that no bills will be misplaced – costing us money in the long run.

Third, keep the laundry clean.


I can wear the same thing every day during this short season; unfortunately, Mark cannot. When doing laundry, I make sure to make his garments the priority. As for Samuel, he’s a diaper baby anyways.

Lastly, make the bed every day.


The bed makes up 75% of your room. Keeping the bed made cuts down on the mess in the second most often frequented room in your house.

My friends, that’s it. That’s my priorities during this season. Everything else may fall apart, but keeping these areas clean and neat will ensure that Mark, Samuel, and I still have a restful place we can go to during this time of transition.

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What are some things you have found helpful in times of harried chaos? What priorities do you set?

 

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Some call it their “catch all spot”. Some call it a “hot spot”. I call it the “I’m going to go insane spot.”

It has been said that getting rid of excess clutter will eliminate 40% of the housework in our homes {National Soap and Detergent Association}. I would say that is efficient homemaking!

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